So i was on the phone today with one of my bridesmaids and she informed me that she might be preggo... I think that is awesome dont get me wrong... but along with the news I got this.

 "So... if im pregnant, I think im am going to need to get a different dress then all the other girls"

Now when we were trying on dresses and the conversation of her becoming pregnant came up i had told her we would just get the "bridesmaid" dress that I have chosen for everyone altered so it would fit her and "support" a pregnant girl. Or that she could wait till last minute and just order a bigger dress. 

My sister is my maid of honor and she is the only one of my bridesmaids that I want in a different style dress as some of you seen in my pics I posted.  If I allow the preggo girl to get a different dress it in a way defeats my purpose of having my sister stand out as that special person.

What should I do?

MEMBERS COMMENTS VIEWING 1 - 3 OUT OF 5 COMMENTS Page:  1 | 2 | Next >  Last >> NEXT PAGE From: RodSallmen 03/31/2007 22:57:07 Your friend sounds a little self-centered. This is your DAY, a pregnancy lasts 40-42 WEEKS. Her special day will come with the birth of a child (hopefully no complications)! I think she should be told that she can have the dress you picked out altered! If she does not accept this offer, then maybe she needs to know that for just one day she should let the world revolve around someone else...You...her friend on YOUR special day!  Some people are just not able to walk a day in another's shoes! Good luck Rod From: mumtotwo 03/31/2007 21:02:51 I say you definitely go with the dress to match the rest of your bridesmaids.  I'm sure the seamstress has had to alter a dress many times for this same kind of situation.  It's your wedding, your day, and your choice!  From: BoxingDayMom 03/31/2007 17:04:28 I have to agree with Jenn and Karen, there should be no problem altering a dress and I'm sure the seemstress is used to situation changes as well and may even have a maternity version of the dress.... Page:  1 | 2 | Next >  Last >> NEXT PAGE